Premature Reconciliation

What does this mean: When a guy or gal is trying to win back the affections of their ex...many times they start to make headway...but then go too far when the ex shows signs of reattachment.


For example...


Tom calls Sally and they set up a little coffee talk...and it goes well...BUT rather than leaving after 20 minutes or so...Tom continues and tries to move forward too fast.


And even if Sally brings up getting back together first...Tom's response should NOT be YIPEE!


He'd be much better off staying calm and saying something like...


"Let's take it slow and see how it goes."


Women I email and talk with...often make the mistake of 'sleeping with their ex' too soon. (classic Premature Reconciliation).